5 tips to keep a Relationship Interesting
5 tips to keep a Relationship Interesting – In this article Hideshade.com will share with you five tips what you must do as a high value woman in order to sustain and maintain your high value relationship, fun and exciting. So let’s get on with those five tips that you all are waiting for.
#1 Stay Fun, Playful, Happy and Exciting
The first one is stay fun, playful, happy and exciting. When you stop laughing at his jokes, that’s when the problem happens and usually it’s when you start to take things too personally.
For example, if he’s teasing you or playfully picking on you, banter back, tease him back. Do not take it too personally. Have some fun with it. For example, if he says, “Wow, your sister is so beautiful,” say, “Ah, thanks. Of course she is. She’s my sister.” Say something similar if he has a brother.
Never get upset on what fun he makes on you. You too have the same right to give him back. At times whatever fun that he will be making on you may be in a positive intention, like, to seek your attention and much more. Take thinks positively to have a healthy relationship.
Tip two is growth. If you want to keep a relationship fun and exciting, the healthy option is not to learn the pole dance moves to please him, but to grow as a person. Never stop growing, never stop educating and improving yourself. When you are developing, you are also sustaining his interest in you.
Imagine the linguist, when you buy a book and you read it, the first time it’s fun and exciting, the second time it’s interesting, the third time it’s a bit boring. But what if a book never ends? What if the chapters continue? Then you will never get enough of it. You will always think, what’s next.
Be that book and be this book for yourself first. Self-love is not a comfort zone with a bubble bath, champagne and a box of chocolates. That’s actually a treat. Self-love is uncertainty, self-care, discipline, strength, patience, self-control, maturity. Loving yourself equals living your ultimate happy life, your best life.
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#3 Do not surround yourself with low value friends
Third tip, do not surround yourself with low value friends. As these people will be putting sticks in your relationship based on their own insecurities and assumptions. These type of women out of fear, tend to look for negativity. When you look for negativity, you find it everywhere and you end up basing your decisions on assumptions and paranoia, fear and insecurities.
So when you surround yourself with people like that, sooner or later we start to put seeds of doubt in your mind towards your relationship, which then can influence loss of emotional control, arguments, unreasonable confrontations, and in many case failure of your relationship.
Your friends are very important. They are required as you grow in life. Indeed they teach you many things. I too had good friends and I hope all you might be having. Be wise in choosing a friend. That’s important! Never make those friends who will be responsible for your breakup. Therefore, make sure you surround yourself with good ones.
#4 Respect each other’s privacy
Fourth tip is respect each other’s privacy. Trust each other. If you do not trust the person you are with, why are you with them? And if it’s because you don’t have enough self-respect to leave him, it makes you a woman who does not value or respect herself.
If you do not value or respect yourself and are too scared to leave a person that you don’t trust, then, this person that you do not trust will feel bad and will disrespect you, plus will walk all over you. Why? Because you don’t love yourself and if you don’t love yourself, why should he?
#5 Stay positive
Tip five, stay positive. If you are in a happy and healthy relationship focus on the positive. When we focus on the negative, we bring more negative. A lot of times when we just ignore the negative, it actually goes away. However, not always. Therefore, make sure to set healthy boundaries in a relationship.
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Remember, there is no such thing as a perfect relationship. Yes, you can bring out the best in each other and enjoy the ultimate happy relationship but there is no such thing as perfection. In fact, perfection doesn’t exist. So if you will be focusing on the negative, it doesn’t matter how amazing your relationship is, you will never be happy.
Therefore, focus on the positive, enjoy the moment, be grateful for what you do have and you will receive more of it. Yet, at the same time, please don’t look at the step as like some fluffy positivity stuff. Follow your brain, follow the logic behind it.
For example, if you are in a friends with benefits relationship and all he’s doing is using you and you are actually trying to be grateful for it, then that’s not what I mean. However, if you actually are in this position and want to turn friends with benefits into a relationship, then you better do it as soon as possible. What I mean is if logically he is invested and you are in a happy relationship, do not look for what you do not have. Be grateful for what you do have.
So now you have my five tips on how to keep a high value relationship fun and exciting. But do you actually know how to be a woman of high value? As if you don’t know, you will not be able to have a high value relationship.
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