Friendship to Relationship: A True Love Story by Laveena Sequeira
Friendships are considered as one of the life’s greatest joy. Finding a friend with whom we can share almost anything, with whom we are really comfortable and the one who accepts us as and how we are is just a priceless thing. Here am going to share my true love story that turned friendship into relationship.
Five years ago I met a person whom I then considered a friend. I didn’t realize that the same friend will be one among my best friends. The day I first saw him, I felt like my heart skipped a beat. Little I did know about him. That particular year had bought a lot of change in my life. My best friend is a guy who I never thought I would talk so much. I added him on Facebook, WhatsApp and we started texting.
Day by day we started getting knowing each other. We began talking a lot more and started opening up to each other. I found out every little thing about him and he understood a lot about me. It pretty much happened in one single day. We spoke everyday right from the moment we were friends. When the conversation was on I found out that he knows me like no one else. As the days went by I loved to spend some time with him. We used to go for an outing like beach on almost every Sunday.
In all honesty this isn’t as great or easy as it sounds. Think about it, you tell a guy everything about yourself and are just completely comfortable; it’s hard to not catch feelings. So yes! I did and pretty early on. This was for two reasons, one I caught his feelings really easily and two he’s charming even when he’s not trying though.
So this eventually caused issues. I’m not sure if the feelings at this point were completely mutual, but somewhere I did know that he too was into me. The thing is I just did not know how much? We were on two different pages and didn’t talk about moving ahead into relationship, this because we didn’t wanted to ruin our friendship and thus we had to move on as best friends.
As time passed by we got closer and closer to each other and I started to trust him to the point where it really scared me. I had never trusted someone like this in my entire life and it wasn’t something easy or comfortable with me because, I did not know what to do or say. I just talked until I had nothing else to say.
Yes! I love him. So I wasn’t sure if I wanted to go any further and express my feelings. Much before I fell in love with him, he is my best friend and I did not wanted to ruin that, but the only thing that wanted in life is to be happy and he had not made my single day unhappy. But, just the thought of keeping this friendship stronger was more important to me.
Finally I decided that, if I want to be happy for a little must end this friendship and restart again with relationship. I knew it’ll be worth it. After 2 years on June 11, 2017 late in the evening at 7:00 PM finally I gathered all my courage and proposed him. You won’t believe be but yes he accepted my proposal. That day I considered as one of my best day ever and I still remember the date. I still get goose bumps thinking of that day. Isn’t it great? We first met as strangers, became friends, then best friends and finally in love.
I still can’t believe that we are lovers right now. But I will never forget to count you as one of my blessings every day. So here we are with 2 years of friendship and 3 years later being in a relationship. He still makes me happier than any other person ever has. I guess liking your best friend isn’t so bad as long as you both know you’ll be there for the other no matter what happens. We went through thick and thin of life and I wouldn’t change it for the world. He’s my best friend and love of my life. I’m beyond thankful for him. So all I have to say is thank you my love for everything.
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Stop saying I love you seriously, it is the most misused phrase on earth. It’s kind of nice to tell someone, but tell me, are you serious? Many people say it is convenient, but tell me, are you serious?
A journalist asked an elderly couple, “How did you manage to stay together for 65 years?” The woman’s response blew my mind. She said we were born at a time when if something was broken we would fix it, not just throw it away.
Hearing his words made me pause for a second no, no more than just a second because it made me realize that what most people call love today is not love at all, it is possession and not being cynical, but I feel like most people when our generation alone I don’t know the difference, so if you’re confused and stop saying.
You want to know the difference between love and possession, we will stay tuned while I analyze it. Contrary to popular belief, true love is not blind, it has a 20/20 vision and a love relationship is not 50/50 or 100 100 a, Total Commitment It is not an exchange or a balancing act, it is all about set your whole heart on that step.
Don’t fall into the traps, love says I want you to be happy. Possession says I want you to make me happy. Because, because possession is actually the opposite of love, another name is addiction. Love also has an alias that goes for understanding and commitment. See while possession says “I”, love says “We”.
Possession is a cage, love is the sea. Possession wants to control love wants to release possession wants to become love. He wants to be Possession save the receipts to remember his good deeds love. This man keeps count but remembers. We are on the same team. Possession controls the direction Possession wants to win the argument Love wants to win, the connection. Possession is full of darkness love with sunlight.
Possession says who is the correct love says what is correct, love is not sweaty palms or a beating heart, no, it is calmer, the explosion possession destroys those who touch it. Love heals all who sustain it. Possession is false. Love is the only truth that possession vanishes, love is forever because it is.
Absolute, but see that nothing is perfect, even love needs a daily dose of forgiveness. understanding not just those empty words being said. So, are you willing to persevere through difficult times and choose love every day?
Are you willing to fix things that are broken? Not just throw them away. If you said yes, I promise that your love will last a lifetime and that every day will feel like new, just do me a favor, respect the word love and say it only to those. You really do you
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