Girl in Blues – Painting by Joylene Lobo
Artist: Joylene Lobo, Bondel, Mangalore
5 Minutes for the NEXT 50 Years of Your LIFE
Hideshade.com is going to talk to you about some things that we have learned on my journey. Most from experience, some of them I heard as I passed. Many of them I am still practicing, but I think they are all true.
Life is not easy. It is not. Don’t try to do it that way. life is not fair, it never was, it is not now and it never will be. Don’t fall into the trap of the rights trap with the feeling that you are a victim. You don’t get over it and keep going.
So the question we must ask ourselves is what is success for us? How successful is it for you? Is it more money? It’s okay? I have nothing against money. Maybe it’s a healthy family. Maybe it is a happy marriage. Maybe it’s to help others become famous, to be spiritually healthy.
Keep asking yourself that question now, your answer may change over time and that’s fine, but do yourself this favor. Whatever your answer, choose nothing that endangers you. Prioritize who you are who you want to be and don’t spend time with anything that antagonizes your character.
Be brave take the hill, but first answer that question what is my hill? And then we have to get to work to maintain it. Make that daily count. Take care of our garden. keeping the things that are important to us in good shape. Where you are not is as important as where you are. And it is as important where we are not as where we are.
Look at the first step that leads to our identity in life. It is generally I do not know who I am. I know who I am. That is not the first step. The first steps are, generally, I know who I am not. Elimination process Defining ourselves for what we are not is the first step that leads us to really know who we are. Do you know that group of friends you hang out with?
That really can’t bring out the best in you? You know, they gossip too much, or they’re a little murky. They really won’t be there for you in a pinch. Or how about that bar we keep going to, the one we always seem to have the worst hangover from? or that computer screen right? the computer screen that continues to give us an excuse not to leave the house and get involved with the world and have a real human interaction.
Or how about that food that I would keep eating? things that taste so good that they fall off, but make us feel like shit next week. We feel lethargic, we keep getting fat. Well, those people, those places, those things. Stop giving them your time and energy. Just don’t go there. I mean, put them down. And when you do this, when you put them down, when you stop going there. When you stop spending your time, you inadvertently find yourself spending more time and in more places that are healthy for you.
That brings you more joy. Why? Because she has just removed who, who, what, and what was preventing her identity. Trust me too many options. I promise that too many options will make us all tyrants. So get rid of excess wasted time.
Narrow down your options. If you do this, accidentally, almost innocently, you will put it in front of you, which is important. Knowing who we are is difficult It is difficult Take a break Eliminate who is not you first And you will find yourself where you need to be Instead of creating results to take from us, we create more results that give us money back.
Fill us Keep lighting your fire, light it, for the more time in your future We do our best, we don’t always do our best, our architecture is also a verb. Since we are the architects of our own lives. We are going to study the habits, practices, routines that we have that lead and feed our success our joy our honest pain our laughter our own tears we dissect that and give thanks for those things and when we do that guess what happens?
We improve on them And we have more to dissect I know how to discern choosing it because you want to do it because you want to We will make mistakes. You must own them Then you have to make amends And then you have to move in guilt and repentance kills many men before their time So turn the page, go on the journey You are the author of the book of your life.
If you really want more opportunities in life, it is that you really are not going to fit anywhere, I mean that you really fit because most people settle for the average and if you do not go down to their level, there will be conflict. You won’t like the fact that you are committed to your dreams because it reminds you that you gave up yours, one of the most important reasons why most people don’t live up to their dream lives is the fear that they will stay outside if they achieve.
This can be conscious or unconscious, but most of the people surrender not because they cannot do it, not because they are not capable, but because they are surrounded by people who have settled and who do not want to see you succeed because that reminds them that. They did it, they could start to say that it has changed since it has been successful without understanding that its objective was always to change in order to develop and reinvent itself. You will hear ridiculous comments like that successful people are greedy or that my favorite is something more important in life than money.
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